Way back, during one of my winery gigs, we received training in one of the popular time management systems of the day. Doesn't matter which one.
The concept that really stuck with me was the emotional bank account. In our lives, we make deposits to that account when we give of ourselves to our families, our communities and to the world in general. We also make withdrawals. Face it, we do. There are times when we act solely in our own interests despite potential fallout.
The hope is that there is always a positive balance in that account. I hear that the overdraft charges are way unreasonable.
What's weighing on my brain today is what happens when one of the "good" activities that is undertaken to make those deposits turns out to be costly. When it becomes a downer that affects individual, family, job and maybe even health.
The answer, on the surface, appears so very obvious. If only it were that easy.
Abandoning the activity, in this instance (yes, I'm talking about something that I do in my community), leaves behind 7 years of attempting to gain the trust of a group of people. I believe that I have been somewhat successful in that. Bummer is that forces beyond my control make it hard for me to continue to deliver them anything.
I've made my decision. Thanks for your help!
Every Wednesday at noon, music happens at the Wellness and Advocacy Center off of Chanate Road in Santa Rosa. It's a synergistic blend of community, medical/psychological staff and users of the day programs at the center.
The music is way beyond good. A foundation of excellent keyboard, guitar and harmonica are spiced with saxophone, misc percussion and voices.
All comers are welcome to bang on the bongo's, shake a tambourine, sing or bring their own. Everyone that's game gets to solo, the mikes are generously shared.
The sound system is haphazard but can't restrain the seamless shift from blues to rock to rap to country. It's loud and energetic. It's a drug without a prescription. It's amazing!
Don the Trustee
When my mother passed very suddenly some 16 years ago, I worked as a trustee for the first time. Her trust contained walnut orchards, peach orchards and a small vineyard. One of the properties was within the sphere of influence of the adjacent city and I dove in with the neighbors and started working on annexation. Loved this work back then and still find it very satisfying today.